Empower Your Heart with Wisdom and Grace
Helping people heal from betrayal trauma with coaching grounded in experience, empathy, and education in Massachusetts, New Hampshire, Rhode Island, Vermont, Maine, Connecticut and beyond. You are not alone. Let's begin your healing journey.
You are NOT to blame
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Healing IS possible
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You are NOT alone
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You are NOT to blame • Healing IS possible • You are NOT alone •
Why does intimate betrayal feel so devastating?
And you don’t have to navigate it alone.
Intimate betrayal is an attachment injury that impacts us at the core of our being like nothing else.
After discovering your significant other’s double life, you may feel like your world has been turned upside down. One moment your partner is your safe place in the world - the next moment, they are the source of your deepest pain.
Your emotions can feel like a roller coaster of extremes as you rise into anger and rage - and then, fall into sadness, grief and despair. These are normal and expected reactions to the fracturing and breaking apart of our most intimate relationships.
You don’t have to be stuck in this forever. There is a way out.
Together we will move you from crisis to clarity
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and from survival to strength.
Together we will move you from crisis to clarity - and from survival to strength.
Coaching Services I Offer
1:1 Trauma-Informed Coaching
Guided Support for the Full Disclosure Process
Post Disclosure Coaching
Should I Stay or Should I Go?
There is potential for healing—and even post-traumatic growth—whether you stay or leave.
I can’t promise your relationship will survive betrayal, deception, or relational trauma. But I can promise to walk beside you when things feel overwhelming—because they likely will.
I will support you as you navigate difficult, soul-deep decisions—choices that call you to honor your needs and act in your best interest.
Staying or leaving isn’t about right or wrong.
These are deeply personal decisions shaped by your circumstances. What matters most is how the choice is made.
You can stay from a place of health—or from fear.
You can leave from strength—or from pain.
The action alone doesn’t define the emotional wellness behind it.
Let's explore the deeper questions together.
What does emotionally healthy staying or leaving look like?
Will they take real accountability?
Would a temporary separation help
Would I feel freer if I left—or more lost?
What does it say about me?
These questions are heavy, especially with outside pressure and inner confusion. But this process isn’t about what you choose—it is about choosing with clarity and self-trust.
My hope is that you make your decision from a place of clarity, groundedness and freedom from shame.
Whether you decide to stay in or leave your relationship, you can find peace, clarity and even joy again.
I Know What It’s Like.
I’m not here to sugarcoat anything.
Healing from betrayal is hard.
I believe, wholeheartedly, in the power of transformation.
I’ve seen it. I’ve lived it.
Let me help you take your first step.